One Voice

I come from a long line of bad singers.  We cannot carry a tune, can’t identify a tune, are unable to snap along with the tune. But it does not stop us from belting out a little Motown as if we are the offspring of Aretha. We have other skills.  We can cook.  We’re sensible.  … Read more

Hey……..You’re Welcome

The Big Daddy worked for several years with a guy from Canada.  Eh.  He had many observations about Americans including the fact that whenever somebody says “thank you” to one of us we respond with………. No problem. Sure thing. You bet. No worries. Got you covered. Absolutely. …………..but we rarely, if ever, say “you’re welcome.”  … Read more

Publish

I met with my writers group today and the subject of publishing came up.  It always does.  A local Kansas City writer who had just filed for bankruptcy, landed a three book deal and publishers were falling all over themselves to meet her and get her signed.  She hit the writing lottery. Please, God, tell … Read more

The File

My first job was at the Dairy Queen.  I was sixteen years old and ready to work.  And The Queen Mum wasn’t paying for anything fun.  The first week on the job was to learn cone-making with the fancy shmancy DQ swirl at the top. Once that was perfected, it was on to Dilly Bars.  … Read more

The Good, The Bad & The Birth

Will was born three weeks after my dad died.  Maggie and I had spent the early part of the summer at Mom and Dad’s house and returned to Maryland in July.  By the end of that month, Dad decided to stop his treatments. We were insured by Kaiser Permanente and the protocol when you were … Read more